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What do you do when you’ve got writers block?

When Gena asked “Why have I got writers block?” all that happened was that she sat drumming her fingers on the table. When she asked what if… something happened.

“What if I went out and took some photos?”

“What if I had nothing to lose?”

“What if at the very least I had some fun and it shifted the energy?”

“What if I was creative in one area of my life it would affect another area of my life?”

“What if I see something that might inspire me?”

These pictures were taken in the summer of 2006 and ended up forming the chapters that have the main five questions in them. They were taken at random on a ‘throw away’ camera. Coincidentally all of the photos seemed to have some sort of connection to the story, which was noticed when the photos were viewed with shapes, shades and representations within the images in mind. All the pictures are posted here, although not all of them are mentioned in the book, they can all take credit for inspiring the five questions and a different way of thinking about what is unseen, what is unknown and what is unbelievable. The title of the book was decided on before the five questions were discovered. When these photos were taken, the only question Gena knew for certain was the first question, ask what if instead of why. Going on a photo journey around London seemed to be a most unbelievable route to finding the essential nature of the other four questions. 2+2=5 it’s the unbelievable equation and coincidentally five was the perfect number of questions to solve the puzzle. It was pertinent that the other questions were discovered through asking what if. The what if question held the key to a bigger picture and answers to the puzzle.

Asking what if took her train of thought on a journey, an unbelievable journey as it turned out. The writers block had come from asking the question why and that had kept her train of thought in a station, waiting for something to happen. 

Why did I see five, when I had no logical explanation?

Why did I know the book should be called the five questions?

Why did I have an unbelievably strong gut feeling about five?

Drum. Drum. Drum. It was only by taking an action, actually going out and trying out the one idea that had come to her, taking photos, even though she couldn’t see how and didn’t know how it would help, that something unbelievable happened… They could have been viewed as a series of mundane photos and her view perhaps is not obvious in another person’s train of thought. It was only by making a connection to what was going on in Gena’s life at the time and her choice to draw comparisons and link together meanings by looking at the smallest detail and from a different angle, that she noticed the unbelievable. Her answer was hidden in the clouds. A cloud is a word which we all understand but a cloud has different shapes and shades and tells us a story about what weather to expect. We can also use the word cloud to express a lack of clarity. The expression of words in association with a picture seems crucial. When it rains, the nature of the hydrological cycle means that water goes around, changes its shape or appearance and comes around again. Perhaps we should take more notice of nature and learn from an aspect of the world that isn’t controlled by man. Something came to Gena, the clouds seemed to have faces hidden in them, a reflection of her world, hidden aspects, only observed by looking past the obvious. The whole puzzle she was facing was in the nature of good and evil and the clouds seemed to draw a line clearly, black and white.

It was the unbelievable train of thought, one where all judgments were thrown out of the window and all the doors were open to possibilities. The unbelievable result was the five questions.

Click on an image: Look closely at what you see in the shapes and patterns in the photos, particularly in the clouds. Let your imagination wonder, maybe you’ll see more than the obvious.

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